Nov 9 2016, a day to be remembered in history. Today, Donald J.Trump is elected as U.S President, with a significant 289-218 (as for now) electoral votes, defeating Hillary Clinton. Before the election, betting sites are predicting roughly only 28% for Trump to win the President. Again, just like Brexit, the Bookie smiles until last, because most of the people are rushing to buy Hillary win, even the payout is low.
I started my blog 8 years ago, after Barack Obama being elected as President. It had been 8 years, many things changed. V-shape recovery after 2008 Financial Crisis, bringing low-interest rate era, which punish the hard-working person like me, saving money in the bank and not buying any property. Housing price surged like crazy in the past 8 years, more than any era for the past 50 years.Terrorism is a norm nowadays, refugees every where. We seldom open PC now, as we are busy with our cell phone.
I left Singapore, still not able to go back to my beloved country, Malaysia. Still working hard to earn my living. In my first post, I mentioned, "DREAM fade when age grew". I still have DREAM, it does not fade, maybe it is just not the DREAM it used to be. The world changed, people changed, we changed.
Good bye Obama.Welcome to the new era of the world.
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Tuesday, May 8, 2012
传承
生物学家说，所有生物，活着，就是为了一个很简单的目的，繁殖。
当然，人类，生为目前为止最高等的生物，当然有更高尚的目的，传承。
姑且不论要传承什么文明，智慧还是别的，就说我们打算传承些什么给我们的子女们。应该是一些正确的价值观，做人的道理等等。但是应该要怎样传承呢？一个人的教养，跟他的家庭或父母有很大的直接关系。
也许，这世间唯一值得和可以传承的，就是 [ 活出的样子 ]。而唯一传承的方式，就是 [ 活出样子给他看 ] 。献给所有已经，或即将成为父母的同学们。共勉之。
当然，人类，生为目前为止最高等的生物，当然有更高尚的目的，传承。
姑且不论要传承什么文明，智慧还是别的，就说我们打算传承些什么给我们的子女们。应该是一些正确的价值观，做人的道理等等。但是应该要怎样传承呢？一个人的教养，跟他的家庭或父母有很大的直接关系。
也许，这世间唯一值得和可以传承的，就是 [ 活出的样子 ]。而唯一传承的方式，就是 [ 活出样子给他看 ] 。献给所有已经，或即将成为父母的同学们。共勉之。
Sunday, March 4, 2012
关于打工
今天读了一篇文章，关于打工的，在这里分享一下。
李嘉诚演讲：打工是最愚蠢的投资
[很多人会认为打工并不是投资，强烈反对这种观念。其实打工才是最大最愚蠢的投资。 人生最宝贵的是什么？除了我们的青春还有什么更宝贵？很多人都抱怨我穷，我没钱想做生意又找不到资金。多么的可笑！其实在你身上就有着一座金山(无形资产)，只是你不敢承认。宁可埋没也不敢利用。宁可委委屈屈地帮人打工，把你的资产双手拱让给了你的老板。我们试想一下，有谁生下来上天就会送给他一大堆金钱的？问问李嘉诚吧。 我曾经问过我的一个朋友为什么不去打工？他的回答很惊人：“说句得罪点，出去打工简直就是愚蠢浪费青春！为什么你一直是打工仔？因为你安于现状！因为你没有勇气，你天生胆小怕事不敢另择它路！所以你是打工仔！因为你没有勇往直前，没有超越自我的精神！所以，你还是一个打工仔！你想过了改变你的生活，改变你穷困的命运，但是你没有做！因为你不敢做！你害怕输，你害怕输的一穷再穷！你最后不敢想，还是在打工，所以你还是打工仔！！！你努力了，你拼搏了，你抱着雄心大志。结果你没看到预想的成就！你放弃了！你只还是一个打工仔！！为什么你一直是打工仔？因为你随波逐流！近墨者黑，不思上进，分钱没得，死爱闹热，所以你一直是打工仔！因为你畏惧你父母，你听信你亲戚，你没有主张，你不敢一个人做决定。所以，你只不过还是一直是一个打工仔！你观念传统，只想打工赚点钱结婚生子，然后生病老死，走你父母一模一样的路，所以你一直是打工仔！你天生脆弱、脑筋迟钝只想做按班就部的工作，你想做无本的生意，你想坐在家里等天上掉陷饼，所以你一直是一个打工仔！你抱怨没有机遇，机遇来到你身边的时候你又抓不住！因为你不会抓！所以你还是一直是打工仔！因为你的贫穷，所以你自卑！你退缩了！你什么都不敢做！你只会给别人打工！所以你一直是打工仔！你没有特别技能，你只有使蛮力！你和你父母一样，恶性循环，所以，你一直永远的一个一直在打工的打工仔！
很多人想把握机会，要做一件事情时，但往往给自己找了很多理由让自己一直处于矛盾之中，不断浪费时间，虚度时光!
1，我没口才。错！有没有人天生就会说话，台上的演讲大师也不是一下子就能出口成章，骂人的时候很擅长，抱怨的时候也很擅长，这也是口才，只是没有任何营养罢了，那是没有价值的口才；看别人争论的时候，自己满嘴评头论足，却不反省自己，倘若你做得好，你今天是否还说自己没口才。
2，我没钱。错！不是没有钱，而是没有赚钱的脑袋，工作几年了没有钱么，有了，但是花掉了，花在没有回报的事情上面，吃喝玩乐，或存放贬值了，没有实现最大化，所以钱就这样入不敷出，这样月光光 这样被生活所需全部一一使用，这样周而复始，每月做个月光族，没有远虑，当一天和尚敲一天钟，得过且过。
3，我没能力。错！不给自己机会去锻炼，又有谁一出生就有跑的能力?跳的能力？一毕业就是社会精英?一创业就马上成功?当别人很努力的学习，很努力的积累，努力的找方法，而他每天就做了很少一点就觉得乏味，学了一些就觉得没意思，看了一些就不想看，跟自己跟别人说没兴趣学，然后半辈子过去，一事无成，然后牢骚上天不给机会。能力是努力修来的，不努力想有能力，天才都会成蠢材，但努力，再笨的人也能成精英。
4，我没时间。错！时间很多，但浪费的也很多，别人很充实，他在看电视，别人在努力学习时，他在游戏消遣虚度，总之时间就是觉得很多余，他过得越来越无聊，别人赚钱了羡慕别人，但不去学别人好好把握时间创造价值，整天不学无术。
5，我没心情。错！心情好的时候去游玩；心情不好的时候在家喝闷酒，心情好的时候去逛街，心情不好的时候玩游戏，心情好的时候去享受，心情不好的时候就睡大觉，好坏心情都一样，反正就是不做正事。
6， 我没兴趣。错！兴趣是什么，吃喝玩乐谁都有，没有成就哪里来的尽兴，出去旅游回来月光族，出去K歌 回头钱包空空，出去大量购物回来惨兮兮。打工有没有兴趣，挤公车有没有兴趣？上班签到下班打卡有没有兴趣？家里急需要一大笔钱的时候借钱有没有兴趣？要还钱没钱还有没有兴趣？卖老鼠药的人对老鼠药有没有兴趣……？
7，我考虑考虑。错！考虑做吧，有可能就成了！不做吧，好不甘心，整天上班也没有个头，还是做吧，明天开始，不过还是算了，再想想，这钱挣的也不容易，不不，就是打工挣钱也不容易，所以不能放弃机会，决定了，把握机会。 哎呀！天都黑了，明天再说吧！然后第二天又因为以上123456点，因为左思右想，继续循环，最终不能决定，犹犹豫豫，还是一无所获。
有句话是，可怜之人必有可恨之处！这一生中不是没有机遇，而是没有争取与把握，借口太多，理由太多......!争取之人必竭力争取，一分钱都没有也千方百计想办法，不争取之人给一百万也动不起来，发财不了，还有可能一败涂地，这就是行动上的欠缺，喜欢犹豫不决，喜欢拖延，喜欢半途而废，最后一辈子平庸，碌碌无为！还有的人，做事三分钟热度，一开始热情高涨，等会就继续懒散，这种人成功的帽子也不会在你的头上。看看为什么别人身价几个亿，你自己还在为钱奔波，不要羡慕别人命好，别人很困难的时候是怎么坚挺过来的，怎么克服困难，突破自己，改变命运的，你没看到罢了，活着就是要一身价值。]
李嘉诚演讲：打工是最愚蠢的投资
[很多人会认为打工并不是投资，强烈反对这种观念。其实打工才是最大最愚蠢的投资。 人生最宝贵的是什么？除了我们的青春还有什么更宝贵？很多人都抱怨我穷，我没钱想做生意又找不到资金。多么的可笑！其实在你身上就有着一座金山(无形资产)，只是你不敢承认。宁可埋没也不敢利用。宁可委委屈屈地帮人打工，把你的资产双手拱让给了你的老板。我们试想一下，有谁生下来上天就会送给他一大堆金钱的？问问李嘉诚吧。 我曾经问过我的一个朋友为什么不去打工？他的回答很惊人：“说句得罪点，出去打工简直就是愚蠢浪费青春！为什么你一直是打工仔？因为你安于现状！因为你没有勇气，你天生胆小怕事不敢另择它路！所以你是打工仔！因为你没有勇往直前，没有超越自我的精神！所以，你还是一个打工仔！你想过了改变你的生活，改变你穷困的命运，但是你没有做！因为你不敢做！你害怕输，你害怕输的一穷再穷！你最后不敢想，还是在打工，所以你还是打工仔！！！你努力了，你拼搏了，你抱着雄心大志。结果你没看到预想的成就！你放弃了！你只还是一个打工仔！！为什么你一直是打工仔？因为你随波逐流！近墨者黑，不思上进，分钱没得，死爱闹热，所以你一直是打工仔！因为你畏惧你父母，你听信你亲戚，你没有主张，你不敢一个人做决定。所以，你只不过还是一直是一个打工仔！你观念传统，只想打工赚点钱结婚生子，然后生病老死，走你父母一模一样的路，所以你一直是打工仔！你天生脆弱、脑筋迟钝只想做按班就部的工作，你想做无本的生意，你想坐在家里等天上掉陷饼，所以你一直是一个打工仔！你抱怨没有机遇，机遇来到你身边的时候你又抓不住！因为你不会抓！所以你还是一直是打工仔！因为你的贫穷，所以你自卑！你退缩了！你什么都不敢做！你只会给别人打工！所以你一直是打工仔！你没有特别技能，你只有使蛮力！你和你父母一样，恶性循环，所以，你一直永远的一个一直在打工的打工仔！
很多人想把握机会，要做一件事情时，但往往给自己找了很多理由让自己一直处于矛盾之中，不断浪费时间，虚度时光!
1，我没口才。错！有没有人天生就会说话，台上的演讲大师也不是一下子就能出口成章，骂人的时候很擅长，抱怨的时候也很擅长，这也是口才，只是没有任何营养罢了，那是没有价值的口才；看别人争论的时候，自己满嘴评头论足，却不反省自己，倘若你做得好，你今天是否还说自己没口才。
2，我没钱。错！不是没有钱，而是没有赚钱的脑袋，工作几年了没有钱么，有了，但是花掉了，花在没有回报的事情上面，吃喝玩乐，或存放贬值了，没有实现最大化，所以钱就这样入不敷出，这样月光光 这样被生活所需全部一一使用，这样周而复始，每月做个月光族，没有远虑，当一天和尚敲一天钟，得过且过。
3，我没能力。错！不给自己机会去锻炼，又有谁一出生就有跑的能力?跳的能力？一毕业就是社会精英?一创业就马上成功?当别人很努力的学习，很努力的积累，努力的找方法，而他每天就做了很少一点就觉得乏味，学了一些就觉得没意思，看了一些就不想看，跟自己跟别人说没兴趣学，然后半辈子过去，一事无成，然后牢骚上天不给机会。能力是努力修来的，不努力想有能力，天才都会成蠢材，但努力，再笨的人也能成精英。
4，我没时间。错！时间很多，但浪费的也很多，别人很充实，他在看电视，别人在努力学习时，他在游戏消遣虚度，总之时间就是觉得很多余，他过得越来越无聊，别人赚钱了羡慕别人，但不去学别人好好把握时间创造价值，整天不学无术。
5，我没心情。错！心情好的时候去游玩；心情不好的时候在家喝闷酒，心情好的时候去逛街，心情不好的时候玩游戏，心情好的时候去享受，心情不好的时候就睡大觉，好坏心情都一样，反正就是不做正事。
6， 我没兴趣。错！兴趣是什么，吃喝玩乐谁都有，没有成就哪里来的尽兴，出去旅游回来月光族，出去K歌 回头钱包空空，出去大量购物回来惨兮兮。打工有没有兴趣，挤公车有没有兴趣？上班签到下班打卡有没有兴趣？家里急需要一大笔钱的时候借钱有没有兴趣？要还钱没钱还有没有兴趣？卖老鼠药的人对老鼠药有没有兴趣……？
7，我考虑考虑。错！考虑做吧，有可能就成了！不做吧，好不甘心，整天上班也没有个头，还是做吧，明天开始，不过还是算了，再想想，这钱挣的也不容易，不不，就是打工挣钱也不容易，所以不能放弃机会，决定了，把握机会。 哎呀！天都黑了，明天再说吧！然后第二天又因为以上123456点，因为左思右想，继续循环，最终不能决定，犹犹豫豫，还是一无所获。
有句话是，可怜之人必有可恨之处！这一生中不是没有机遇，而是没有争取与把握，借口太多，理由太多......!争取之人必竭力争取，一分钱都没有也千方百计想办法，不争取之人给一百万也动不起来，发财不了，还有可能一败涂地，这就是行动上的欠缺，喜欢犹豫不决，喜欢拖延，喜欢半途而废，最后一辈子平庸，碌碌无为！还有的人，做事三分钟热度，一开始热情高涨，等会就继续懒散，这种人成功的帽子也不会在你的头上。看看为什么别人身价几个亿，你自己还在为钱奔波，不要羡慕别人命好，别人很困难的时候是怎么坚挺过来的，怎么克服困难，突破自己，改变命运的，你没看到罢了，活着就是要一身价值。]
以上几项是我们的借口呢 ？
共勉之 。
共勉之 。
Saturday, February 18, 2012
Jeremy Lin
每个人都在看着他，他也如很多人所愿的，今天输了，虽然他拿了26分。
不是要泼冷水，只是输赢在比赛里是很正常的事。不过能够带领球队走出低潮打出一个7连胜的小波，这本身已经很了不起。
很多人很不服的说，林书豪之所以能够红，是因为他是亚洲球员。每一天很多黑人球员都在做着和他一样的东西，但是媒体却没有大事报道。这也许是真的吧。Derrick Rose 那么强，也没办法上Times 的封面。
媒体炒作是很重要，但是如果你是没有料的，估计媒体也没空来炒作你吧。林书豪的横空出世实实在在的印证了，[机会是留给准备好的人] 这句金句。接下来，分享一个他的3分绝杀影片。一个敢于在最后十五秒控球，然后叫所有队友让开，施展绝杀的人，他的态度，其实已经可以到了球队灵魂的地位了。
加油，姚明过后，我们真的需要另一个华裔NBA球星。
不是要泼冷水，只是输赢在比赛里是很正常的事。不过能够带领球队走出低潮打出一个7连胜的小波，这本身已经很了不起。
很多人很不服的说，林书豪之所以能够红，是因为他是亚洲球员。每一天很多黑人球员都在做着和他一样的东西，但是媒体却没有大事报道。这也许是真的吧。Derrick Rose 那么强，也没办法上Times 的封面。
媒体炒作是很重要，但是如果你是没有料的，估计媒体也没空来炒作你吧。林书豪的横空出世实实在在的印证了，[机会是留给准备好的人] 这句金句。接下来，分享一个他的3分绝杀影片。一个敢于在最后十五秒控球，然后叫所有队友让开，施展绝杀的人，他的态度，其实已经可以到了球队灵魂的地位了。
加油，姚明过后，我们真的需要另一个华裔NBA球星。
Sunday, August 21, 2011
愤怒
从小到大，一直被教育成，要喜怒不现于行，不轻易动怒。看故事，也比较倾向于崇拜那些运筹于帷幄之中的军师，不受任何环境的影响，冷静地思考。
刚看了篇文章，说明人为什么会动怒？
长话短说。愤怒虽然是负面情绪，但是，它却是不回避，不放弃的表现。当一个人受到环境/个人的阻碍时，又觉得自己应该可以改变现状，身体就会激发愤怒的情绪。愤怒帮他调节身体的资源，使他更有攻击性，力量增加，更有可能扭转乾坤。
所以，经常愤怒的人，是个灵敏的人，对外界敏感。这种人，是勇敢又斗志高昂的人。虽然愤怒有时会让人不快，但是它却是有它的价值存在的。愤怒代表不满，通常都是改变现状的动力。
有一类人，不太爱/不太会表达自己的不满，平常总是通情达理，乖巧淡定，情绪十分稳定。但是，平常跟他们接触的人，都被他们这种平稳情绪气得够呛。这些人，不太会直接表达愤怒，而是从行为上间接表达出来，简单来说，就是“非暴力不合作"的行为。这些含蓄，不直接的愤怒压抑行为的出现，是有原因的。简单来说，就是害怕愤怒的威力，或是因为愤怒而受到过伤害。
文章最后，解释愤怒只是手段而不是目的。要尽量让愤怒这个负面情绪为我们所用。利用愤怒的灵敏性，来发觉生活的种种不如意处，以此为起点，让它成为改变生活的动力。
p/s:其实如果你对所有事情都不生气了，那是不是表示你都不在乎那些事了。人，就会慢慢变成橡皮，zombie般地生活下去吧。
人，偶尔还是要愤怒一下的。^__^
刚看了篇文章，说明人为什么会动怒？
长话短说。愤怒虽然是负面情绪，但是，它却是不回避，不放弃的表现。当一个人受到环境/个人的阻碍时，又觉得自己应该可以改变现状，身体就会激发愤怒的情绪。愤怒帮他调节身体的资源，使他更有攻击性，力量增加，更有可能扭转乾坤。
所以，经常愤怒的人，是个灵敏的人，对外界敏感。这种人，是勇敢又斗志高昂的人。虽然愤怒有时会让人不快，但是它却是有它的价值存在的。愤怒代表不满，通常都是改变现状的动力。
有一类人，不太爱/不太会表达自己的不满，平常总是通情达理，乖巧淡定，情绪十分稳定。但是，平常跟他们接触的人，都被他们这种平稳情绪气得够呛。这些人，不太会直接表达愤怒，而是从行为上间接表达出来，简单来说，就是“非暴力不合作"的行为。这些含蓄，不直接的愤怒压抑行为的出现，是有原因的。简单来说，就是害怕愤怒的威力，或是因为愤怒而受到过伤害。
文章最后，解释愤怒只是手段而不是目的。要尽量让愤怒这个负面情绪为我们所用。利用愤怒的灵敏性，来发觉生活的种种不如意处，以此为起点，让它成为改变生活的动力。
p/s:其实如果你对所有事情都不生气了，那是不是表示你都不在乎那些事了。人，就会慢慢变成橡皮，zombie般地生活下去吧。
人，偶尔还是要愤怒一下的。^__^
结婚前必问的的15个问题
朋友share了一篇很好的文章，贴在这里，跟你们share一下。
大家共勉之。
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p/s: 个人觉得，如果是真心相爱的，就算那些问题是没有答案的，也要铁着心走下去。
大家共勉之。
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附：原载《纽约时报》美国婚恋专家提出的
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Thursday, July 21, 2011
Warrent Buffet Vs Bill Gates
Some sharing from 2 most brilliant man in the world.
Thanks Lion for sharing, but too bad, his blog in down now.
Happy watching!!
Thanks Lion for sharing, but too bad, his blog in down now.
Happy watching!!
Monday, July 4, 2011
好朋友
好朋友，就是你闷时约他出来喝茶时，他不会问为什么，你也不需要解释。
好朋友，就是无聊想去他家过夜，他一定ON你。（如果他女朋友不在）
好朋友，就是当你需要他帮忙的时候，你不会觉得不好意思的。
好朋友，就是当你洋洋得意时，会适时给你泼一点冷水，让你清醒一点。
好朋友，就是你跟他谈天时，不用想话题的。
好朋友，就是打DOTA时，你把他给害死了，他最多[鸟] 你一下，过后还是继续帮你杀人的。
长大后，好朋友会越来越少。去蕪存菁过后，所剩无几，更要好好珍惜。不用常常联络，但是那个感觉永远都还是会在的。
好朋友啊，会不会只是我一厢情愿的认为你是我的好朋友呢？
好朋友，就是无聊想去他家过夜，他一定ON你。（如果他女朋友不在）
好朋友，就是当你需要他帮忙的时候，你不会觉得不好意思的。
好朋友，就是当你洋洋得意时，会适时给你泼一点冷水，让你清醒一点。
好朋友，就是你跟他谈天时，不用想话题的。
好朋友，就是打DOTA时，你把他给害死了，他最多[鸟] 你一下，过后还是继续帮你杀人的。
长大后，好朋友会越来越少。去蕪存菁过后，所剩无几，更要好好珍惜。不用常常联络，但是那个感觉永远都还是会在的。
好朋友啊，会不会只是我一厢情愿的认为你是我的好朋友呢？
Friday, April 8, 2011
Friday
周一上课，周二上课，周三打球，周四加班，周五......
终于有一天可以7.00之前到家了。洗完澡，看到天空还是亮的，感觉真好。
好好在沙发上，看点书，拿个漂亮的杯，喝酸酶汁，看点杂志...
It's Friday....
终于有一天可以7.00之前到家了。洗完澡，看到天空还是亮的，感觉真好。
好好在沙发上，看点书，拿个漂亮的杯，喝酸酶汁，看点杂志...
It's Friday....
Sunday, March 27, 2011
读书和考试
朋友share了一个很有趣的clip,翻唱Eason的[陀飞轮]，考试版。
如果，读书，就只是那么单纯的读书，不用考试，那该多好啊！
就那样读啊，读啊，不用特地去背一些什么东西。就那样读过，存在脑里，一旦需要用到时，就可以拿出来用，跟朋友分享（基本是吹水）。
没压力的读书，是最幸福的。
如果，读书，就只是那么单纯的读书，不用考试，那该多好啊！
就那样读啊，读啊，不用特地去背一些什么东西。就那样读过，存在脑里，一旦需要用到时，就可以拿出来用，跟朋友分享（基本是吹水）。
没压力的读书，是最幸福的。
Saturday, February 12, 2011
行善
昨天听康利说，中国有一个富豪，要去台湾做慈善。
怎么做呢？他会带一大把现钞，包成红包，然后所有需要的人，来排队，就可以领了。听好，是所有人，怎样鉴定哪些是有需要的人，我不知道。不过应该真的会有很多人吧。
我听完了，第一个感觉就是，[哇，怎么踩场踩到台湾去呢？太爱炫耀的啦，这些大陆人。台湾的富豪一定超级K到。]
今早刚好读到这位善心人士的报道，才发现我对他是完全误会了。他是坦荡荡的做善事，而且，在他还没真正富起来时，就已经在捐款了。
不过，因为他的行为是高调行善，所以引来很多人批评他这是“伪善”。不过，怎样都好，我是觉得，只要动机是对的，高调行善事没什么不对，可能这会感召更多人加入行列，一起行善。哪些批评的人，怎么自己没出来行善呢？高调行善，总好过让一群不肖子女在争家产（香港，台湾，澳门很多大家族），落人话柄。
[關於財富，陳光標用了這樣一個比喻——財富如水：「如果你有一杯水，你可以獨自享用；如果你有一桶水，你可以存放家中；但如果你有一條河，你就要學會與他人分享。作為一名企業家，我認為有責任和義務去回報社會。牢記恩情，為他人、為社會做些事情，這將是我人生最大的快樂和最明智的選擇。」]
分享一下这篇文章。一起向陈先生致敬，希望越来越多这样的人出现。
Thursday, December 2, 2010
男朋友
Just read a very nice notes. Wish to share here.
愿天下的有情人终成眷属！
男朋友就是每天不厌其烦的陪你吃饭、送送你上下班的那个人；
男朋友就是虽然身上没什么钱，也会请你吃饭的那个人；
男朋友就是早晨你醒来时第一个想到的那个人；
男朋友就是能跟你打电话聊到半夜都舍不得挂的那个人；
男朋友就是在你最艰难的时候陪伴在你身边的那个人；
男朋友就是为了不让你担心，无论出了什么事都要自己默默承担的那个人；
男朋友就是手机里总是存满你给他发的短信，直到信箱满了都舍不得删掉的那个人;
男朋友就是无论你是不是漂亮都会夸赞你漂亮的那个人；
男朋友就是在你任性、耍小脾气时，也会忍住脾气不会冲你发火的那个人；
男朋友就是看到你流泪时，为你擦去泪水给你一个温暖拥抱的那个人；
男朋友就是就算你犯了错误，也舍不得骂你的那个人；
男朋友就是可以在车站等你很久也不会介意的那个人；
男朋友就是明明最不喜欢逛街，还能陪你一家一家的逛到你觉得满意为止的那个人；
男朋友就是有着宽厚的肩膀可以让你随时依靠的那个人；
男朋友就是吃饭时放慢速度等你的那个人；
男朋友就是总是让你走在马路内侧的那个人；
男朋友就是过马路时会紧紧拉住你的手的人；
男朋友就是就算情人节也不会买花给你，让你对他又爱又气的那个人；
男朋友就是深夜为你开着手机的那个人；
男朋友就是当你读到这篇文章时立刻会想到的那个人！！
Friday, November 19, 2010
Nice sharing from Friend
Actually, we will never know how pain other people are having. NEVER.
We thought we knew, but we are wrong.
http://www.facebook.com/video/video.php?v=174035816099&ref=mf
http://www.facebook.com/note.php?note_id=152072974817577
Saturday, September 4, 2010
Life should be wonderful
If our lovely Najib, or all those YAB(Yang Amat Berhormat), really care about their citizen, wanna know what is their citizen's problem is, the best way they should do is, go take train, bus, or stand at bus station, listen to people gossip, know what people's concern now.
If I still at Malaysia, I will not have chance to take public transport everyday. But now I at Singapore, and do not have enough money to have a car, (car is a luxury here, for me), I had to spend around an hour everyday, taking bus, train, then bus again to reach office.
So I meet a lot of people everyday, listened to their conversation. And as expected, 90% of their conversation are more toward complaining. Complain about boss, colleagues, life, house-owner, etc. Ya, life is never perfect, and we have tons of reason to complain, when things turned against us. But there are so much of wonderful things happen everyday too. But people tend not to discuss about that, maybe complaining will bring sympathy from other people. People like to be comforted.
But, when u see teenagers, they are so happy normally. Chit-chat each other, playing around, talking about wonderful things, etc. We had time like them before, but since when we start to lose our sense of being happy, always look things at negative perspective, not considerable, etc? Life pressure changed us? I dunno.
Life should be wonderful. Being alive is already wonderful enough.
Work Life Balance
Time flies, Opps, I should say "rocketed" since start working. It had been 4 years working.
When looked back, how much things I had achieved for my 4 years in secondary schools, 4 years in University, but I hardly wrote out anything what I had achieved in 4 years time of working.
4 years in secondary school, I had my wonderful times in school, grew from a small young boy, too a matured teenager. Bulid life-long friendship with best friends, doing a lot of crazy/stupid things.
4 years in University, grew from a small kampung boy, to a hot-blood young man. Knowing how corrupt our country are, start care about others, etc. Build strong, good friendship with course-mates, while build my profession in career.
4 years working life, we got money, but in-exchange with our time. We had miss out so much of great things. Our life become machinery life, morning wake-up, go work, fight fight fight, at night back home, dinner, sleep. When schedule a meet up with friend, the schedule is by months. Even very close friend, we might meet up 6 months once, 1 years once. Everyone is busy.
So how to motivate ourselves during weekend, or maybe after work? If you work until 11pm everyday, you will slowly lost all your friend, because you are so hard to be invited, sooner or later, your friend will give up on you, and you had to spend your whole life in office.
Having a relax dinner with close friend helped. At least they remind you that, your life is not only work. You can talk about all things other than work, complaining to each other, talk about old sweet time.
Listen to some soft music. It helped to remind you that, you are not machine, you still have feel, you still know how to appreciate good music. My way of express thing is so terrible, and I guess nobody will able to feel what I wish to say now. Maybe is due to language, or maybe is due to I am really not a good writer. Just give me some times, I will improve.
Sunday, August 29, 2010
Saturday, August 21, 2010
NUS
Start study my postgraduate of Electronic Engineering at NUS. It is actually a Master of Science by coursework, so I just need to finish 10 module, by minimum CGPA 3.0.
The tuition fees is SGD 1990 / semester, and the is PR rate. For international student, I think the rate will be higher. So it depend how long you needed to complete it, for example, you take 2-3-2-3 course per semester, then you will need need 4 semester, but if you take 2 courses only per semester, then it would need 5 semester.
My classmate are mostly from India and China, most of them. Every year, NUS sponsored many scholarship for foreign student, mostly from China and India, to attract them to study at NUS. But they need to work at Singapore for > 3 years, after graduation, unless you can prove that you are unable to be employed.
According from my Singaporean friend, sometimes they felt like NUS is not build for them, but for all foreigner. In order to get into NUS, they either need to be high-flyer at JC (Junior College, A level, just like STPM at Malaysia), or they had to study at Singapore Polytechnic, and score a very high pointer. But for foreigner, the standard seems lower a bit. So it is not easy for Singaporean to get in to NUS, for those who get in, most of them are high-flyer during JC.
Sometimes I feel sorry about Singaporean, because the community is very competitive, and the government doesn't really have protective measure to protect them for all outsider. And they had to push themselves to be competitive, and this whole thing bring the small country up to 1st class country. So the government shape the people.
The tuition fees is SGD 1990 / semester, and the is PR rate. For international student, I think the rate will be higher. So it depend how long you needed to complete it, for example, you take 2-3-2-3 course per semester, then you will need need 4 semester, but if you take 2 courses only per semester, then it would need 5 semester.
My classmate are mostly from India and China, most of them. Every year, NUS sponsored many scholarship for foreign student, mostly from China and India, to attract them to study at NUS. But they need to work at Singapore for > 3 years, after graduation, unless you can prove that you are unable to be employed.
According from my Singaporean friend, sometimes they felt like NUS is not build for them, but for all foreigner. In order to get into NUS, they either need to be high-flyer at JC (Junior College, A level, just like STPM at Malaysia), or they had to study at Singapore Polytechnic, and score a very high pointer. But for foreigner, the standard seems lower a bit. So it is not easy for Singaporean to get in to NUS, for those who get in, most of them are high-flyer during JC.
Sometimes I feel sorry about Singaporean, because the community is very competitive, and the government doesn't really have protective measure to protect them for all outsider. And they had to push themselves to be competitive, and this whole thing bring the small country up to 1st class country. So the government shape the people.
Saturday, July 24, 2010
Failure
Just read a good magazine. "Frozen Thought". Is some sort like motivation magazine. But dun read it whole day, just read 1-2 article once, else will be boring. Some good phrase from this magazine, which I wish to put it here to remind myself.
Failure does not mean I'm failure:
It does mean I have not yet succeeded.
Failure does not mean I have accomplished nothing:
It does mean I have learner something.
Failure does not mean I have been a fool:
It does mean I had enough faith to experiment.
Failure does not mean I have disgraced:
It does mean I dare to try.
Failure does not mean I don't have it:
It does mean I have something to do in a different way.
Failure does not mean I am inferior:
It does mean I am not perfect.
Failure does not mean I have wasted my life:
It does mean that I have an excuse to start over.
Failure does not mean that I should give up:
It does mean that I should try harder.
Failure does not mean that I will never make it:
It does mean that I need more practice.
Failure does not mean that you have abandoned me:
It does mean that you must have a better idea.
共勉之。
Saturday, January 30, 2010
Passion
2 more days, I will be 27. Wow, consider quite old. But still do not see much green light in my life yet, career, financial, family, etc.... Ya, maybe 27 is still too young to consider all this.
By coming to Singapore, more and more uncertainty in my life. Love, career, living style, and a lot a lot. It is just another kind of different life style, and I am not sure whether I like it, or not. And this make thing very hard, when you can settle down on your mind, you can't make big decision. And everything just stuck there, and keep on stuckking.
And the most important thing, it seems like I start losing passion on my work. Start getting bored, and do not have intention to learn more thing though. Now I just start to understand, why for those management associate vacancy, one of the criteria will be, "working experience less than 2 years". It is really hard to keep on the fire just like you just graduate from school. But I believe, by keeping the fire, your life will be more success. Come back, my PASSION!
By coming to Singapore, more and more uncertainty in my life. Love, career, living style, and a lot a lot. It is just another kind of different life style, and I am not sure whether I like it, or not. And this make thing very hard, when you can settle down on your mind, you can't make big decision. And everything just stuck there, and keep on stuckking.
And the most important thing, it seems like I start losing passion on my work. Start getting bored, and do not have intention to learn more thing though. Now I just start to understand, why for those management associate vacancy, one of the criteria will be, "working experience less than 2 years". It is really hard to keep on the fire just like you just graduate from school. But I believe, by keeping the fire, your life will be more success. Come back, my PASSION!
Thursday, October 22, 2009
The Alchemist
It had been so long that I din finish reading an English book, I mean soft one, not those Times, Newsweeks, Busineesweek etc. Sometimes it is good to read some soft book, I will helps, for us to rethink about our lives, dreams.
"The Alchemist", a short story book, which is telling about a story of a boy chasing his dream, a treasure in pyramid. Through simple story, the author brought out some obstacles, which everyone is facing in their live.
While reading this book, I start to think about a simple question. What is your dream? A simple question, but I don't think people can easily answer it. I myself cannot answered it, even to myself. Are we getting more stupid when we grew? Why a simple question, which can easily answered by a kid, and can't we? Live become robotic, after you start work. Everyday start with a constant rhythm, seeing everyone going toward one direction, and so on the evening. Time to start thinking.
Here it is. The Alchemist. Thanks Lion for giving me the space for uploading the book.
http://lionel.chimou.com/fff/The_Alchimist.pdf
"The Alchemist", a short story book, which is telling about a story of a boy chasing his dream, a treasure in pyramid. Through simple story, the author brought out some obstacles, which everyone is facing in their live.
While reading this book, I start to think about a simple question. What is your dream? A simple question, but I don't think people can easily answer it. I myself cannot answered it, even to myself. Are we getting more stupid when we grew? Why a simple question, which can easily answered by a kid, and can't we? Live become robotic, after you start work. Everyday start with a constant rhythm, seeing everyone going toward one direction, and so on the evening. Time to start thinking.
Here it is. The Alchemist. Thanks Lion for giving me the space for uploading the book.
http://lionel.chimou.com/fff/The_Alchimist.pdf
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